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Saturday, 25 October 2014

Top-5 Mistakes of Single Christian Girls

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Some Nigerian young women have unrealistic standards on their potential significant others. For example, they go to church several times a week and are looking for men who are doing the same. Or just spend too much time in church, while men are in some other places.


So, here are some advice for Christian girls who are searching for their future husband and facing some troubles:

1. There is no perfection
                           
A lot of girls are searching a perfect man. They want someone who will be their everything, some person who would complete them. But than there is another point: Jesus is the one that completes you and is meant to be your everything. So don’t look for an idol. Look for a person who is striving to perfection and loves God. There is no person who can’t disappoint or who is right in everything.

2. Don’t look for ‘servants’ if you consider yourself a ‘princess’
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Some Nigerian girls are too egoistic. They say they want to be treated like princesses. But they are not ready to behave with their man as if he was a prince. And it is simply disrespected. As a princess – make sure you are treating your boo as a prince as well.

3. Too much time in church
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Spending time in church is so great! But it is not the best attitude to remain afraid of the outer world and to use religion as a shield. It can work against you – the walls of church can block you from blessings.

4. Searching for a true believer
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Some women are looking for a true ‘man of God’, but they become too focused. Such ladies can be easily trapped by men who use the name of God just to pick up girls. There should be less focus on this aspect, try to pay more attention to general connection between two of you.

5. Trying making him a man of God
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Sometimes the girls think that they can significantly change person they like. And, of course, they are sure it can be done quickly. But some men are creating their connection with God very slowly. It is not your business to interfere and to make them do it faster. But it is good when you bring your boo some positive influence.

There are so many great and amazing women out there, but sometimes certain mistakes are being made that hinder them from seeing better results in their lives.

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